The Bridegroom Has Prepared You
Matthew 25:1–13
The Seventh Sunday after Pentecost
July 27, 2025
Life in Christ Lutheran Church
Grand Marais, Minnesota
“Then the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them, but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps.
“As the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and slept. But at midnight there was a cry, ‘Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’ Then all those virgins rose and trimmed their lamps.
“And the foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ But the wise answered, saying, ‘Since there will not be enough for us and for you, go rather to the dealers and buy for yourselves.’
“And while they were going to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was shut. Afterward the other virgins came also, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open to us.’
“But he answered, ‘Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.’ Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.”
Grace and peace to you from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
Are We Ready?
When we get to the end of the Church Year and zing, zing, zing. We are surrounded by readings about the Last Day. Jesus is coming again. The dead will rise. There will be judgment. There will be a great feast. There will be trouble and persecution before He comes.
And after several Sundays of it, we may be tempted to say, “Yes, Pastor. We know. Jesus is coming again. Do we really need to hear this one more time?”
That is the question, isn’t it?
Do we know?
Are we ready?
Jesus tells this parable during a long discourse about the end of time. Just before it, He tells of a servant whose master returns earlier than the servant expects. In this parable, the bridegroom arrives later than expected. So, which is it? Will Jesus come sooner or later?
Both—and neither.
The point is not the timing. The point is that you cannot know the timing. “Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.”
Ten young women are waiting to meet the bridegroom and join the wedding procession. Five are wise. Five are foolish. All ten have lamps. All ten expect the bridegroom. All ten become drowsy. All ten fall asleep.
The wise women are not praised because they stayed awake. They didn’t. The difference is that the wise brought oil for the delay, while the foolish brought none.
At midnight the cry comes: “Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.”
The women rise and prepare their lamps. Then the foolish discover what should have been obvious from the beginning. Their lamps are going out. They ask the wise for oil, but readiness cannot be borrowed. There is not enough for both. While the foolish go away searching for oil, the bridegroom comes. Those who are ready enter the marriage feast with him, and the door is shut.
Later the others return. “Lord, lord, open to us.”
But he answers with the most terrible words in the parable: “Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.”
The Foolishness Jesus Exposes
This is not simply a story about planning ahead. Jesus is not giving advice about keeping emergency supplies in the trunk of the car. The ten women picture the visible Church waiting for Christ. They all appear to belong to the wedding party. They all have lamps. They all expect something to happen.
But outward membership is not the same thing as faith. No one can believe for another person. No one can borrow a parent’s faith, a spouse’s faith or a pastor’s faith when the midnight cry sounds. And no one should presume that there will always be another day to repent, another Sunday to hear the Word or another opportunity to receive Christ’s gifts.
That is the foolishness Jesus exposes. It is the foolishness that wants the feast without the Bridegroom. It wants heaven without Christ. It wants to remain near the Church while treating His Word as optional and His forgiveness as something that can be put off until later.
We know that foolishness.
We tell ourselves there will be time later. Later we will pray. Later we will forgive. Later we will listen. Later we will repent. Later we will take Christ’s promises seriously.
But you do not know the day or the hour.
And if this parable only said, “Prepare yourself better,” none of us would be ready. We have all been foolish. We have all become distracted. We have all treated eternal things as though they could wait until tomorrow.
The Bridegroom Has Come for You
But the Bridegroom who is coming is the same Bridegroom who has already come for you.
Jesus did not remain safely in heaven and wait for His bride to make herself worthy. He took on human flesh. He entered our darkness. He carried our sin, our unbelief and our foolishness to the cross. There He was rejected. There He endured the judgment we deserved. There He shed His blood to cleanse and claim His bride, the Church.
And on the third day He rose bodily from the dead.
The Bridegroom lives.
He is coming again, not because His work remains unfinished, but because His saving work is complete. He comes to raise the dead, gather His people and bring them into the feast that has no end.
How Christ Keeps You Ready
So how are you ready?
Not by guessing the date. Not by watching world events for a secret timetable. Not by piling up enough religious activity to prove that you deserve a place at the table.
You are ready because Christ gives you what you cannot provide for yourself. He creates faith through His Word. He forgives your sins. He keeps you in His promise.
That is why the Divine Service matters. It is not our weekly contribution toward getting ready. Here the Bridegroom serves His waiting Church. Here He speaks His Word into our ears. Here He calls foolish sinners to repentance and answers confessed sin with His Absolution.
At this font, Christ joined you to His death and resurrection. He placed His name upon you and made you a child of His Father.
At this altar, the crucified and risen Jesus gives you His body and blood, given and shed for you for the forgiveness of sins. He feeds His waiting people with a foretaste of the feast to come.
These gifts are not evidence that we have prepared ourselves. They are how Jesus prepares and sustains His people while the night grows long.
The warning remains serious. Faith can be abandoned. Christ’s gifts can be despised. A person can stand near the Church, carry a lamp and still refuse the Bridegroom who comes through His Word. The closed door in Jesus’ parable will not be opened by excuses, borrowed faith or last-minute bargaining.
Today, however, the door has not closed. Today Christ still calls. Today He still forgives. Today the Bridegroom says to foolish sinners, “Come to Me. Receive what I have won for you.”
And His forgiveness is greater than your foolishness.
When your sins weigh upon you, confess them. Do not defend them. Do not promise God that you will make yourself worthy. Bring Him your empty hands. Christ answers with His completed work: “I forgive you.”
Your assurance does not rest on how watchful you feel. It does not rest on whether your faith seems strong. It rests outside of you, in the Bridegroom who died and rose for you, in the Baptism by which He claimed you and in the forgiving Word He continues to speak.
The Feast Is Ready
The Bridegroom may come sooner than we expect. He may come later than we expect. Either way, His delay is not forgetfulness. It is mercy. And while we wait, we do not wait alone.
Saint Paul writes, “The Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command.” The dead in Christ will rise. Those believers who are still living will be gathered with them. “And so we will always be with the Lord.”
That is where this waiting ends.
Not with disembodied souls drifting somewhere far away. Not with death having the final word. Christ will raise His people bodily. He will reunite His Church. He will bring us into His new creation and His eternal feast.
Therefore, encourage one another with these words.
The midnight cry will sound: “Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.”
And those who are in Christ need not be afraid. The One who comes is the One who was crucified for you. The One who calls you is the One who rose for you. The One who invites you to the feast is the One who prepares and keeps you by His grace.
The Bridegroom is coming.
You belong to Him.
The feast is ready.
Amen.
The peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, keep your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Amen.